"Can you just tell your dad
to pick you up at 5?"
Your kids shouldn't be messengers. Co-parenting needs clear agreements—not constant negotiation.
The co-parenting struggle
"Every text turns into an argument. I dread seeing their name on my phone."
Communication with your ex shouldn't feel like walking through a minefield. But every small thing becomes a battle.
"They changed the schedule again. The kids are confused and I'm the bad guy."
Last-minute changes. Inconsistent rules. The kids are caught in the middle while you both blame each other.
"Who's paying for soccer? Who approved that haircut? Nothing is clear."
Money, decisions, permissions—everything becomes a negotiation because nothing was documented.
"The kids play us against each other. They know exactly what to say."
Without consistent rules between households, kids learn to exploit the gaps. It's not their fault—it's a system problem.
The relationship ended. The partnership didn't.
You may not be together anymore, but you're still raising humans together. That requires agreements, consistency, and communication—even when you can barely stand each other.
A neutral mediator helps you focus on what's best for the kids—not who was right in the last argument.
How it works
1. Remove the emotion
An AI mediator keeps things focused on the kids. No blame, no history, no taking sides.
2. Document agreements
Create written co-parenting principles you both sign off on. Schedules, rules, responsibilities—all clear.
3. Resolve disputes fairly
When disagreements happen, reference your agreements. If you're stuck, the AI helps mediate based on what you both already agreed to.
What co-parents agree on
Custody schedules and holidays
Pick-up and drop-off logistics
Communication rules between parents
Expense sharing and approvals
Consistent rules across households
Introducing new partners to kids
Medical and educational decisions
Screen time and discipline approach
From co-parents who tried it
"My ex and I couldn't have a 5-minute conversation without it blowing up. With the AI mediator, we actually created a holiday schedule we both agreed to. First time in 3 years."
— Co-parenting 2 kids, divorced 4 years
"The expense arguments were killing us. Now we have a written agreement about who pays for what and how to handle extras. I just reference the document instead of fighting."
— Co-parenting 1 child, separated 2 years
Questions
Is this a replacement for a custody agreement?
No. This supplements your legal custody arrangement. It's for the day-to-day stuff the courts don't cover—communication norms, expense sharing, consistent rules between houses.
What if my ex refuses to use it?
You can still document your preferences and send them the invite. The neutral AI mediator often works better than direct communication. If they won't engage, you'll have a record of your attempts.
Is this confidential?
Yes. Your conversations are encrypted. We don't share data or use your conversations for AI training. Your family business stays your business.
How much does it cost?
Free to start. Create agreements and resolve disputes at no cost. Premium features available for power users.
Co-parent better. For them.
The kids didn't ask for this. Give them consistency.