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Practical advice for couples, roommates, co-founders, and co-parents navigating conflict and building stronger agreements.

Stop Keeping Score: The Chore Resentment Trap
Couples

Stop Keeping Score: The Chore Resentment Trap

Chore resentment silently erodes relationships. Learn why keeping score backfires and discover practical strategies to escape the trap before it damages your bond.

By Luca · 7 min read · Jul 29, 2025
Kids Playing Two Households Against Each Other
Co-parents

Kids Playing Two Households Against Each Other

Spot the signs your child is playing two households against each other. Learn why kids manipulate coparents and practical steps to stop it without blame.

By Luca · 8 min read · Jul 26, 2025
My Friends Hate My Partner: Navigating the Rift
Couples

My Friends Hate My Partner: Navigating the Rift

When your friends don't like your partner, it creates painful tension. Learn how to navigate this rift without losing your relationship or your friendships.

By Luca · 8 min read · Jul 24, 2025
How to Split Utilities Fairly: 3 Methods Compared
Roommates

How to Split Utilities Fairly: 3 Methods Compared

Struggling to split utilities with roommates? Compare 3 fair methods—equal split, usage-based, and income-based—to find what actually works for your household.

By Luca · 8 min read · Jul 21, 2025
Technical Cofounder Feels Underpaid: The Equity Talk
Co-founders

Technical Cofounder Feels Underpaid: The Equity Talk

When your technical cofounder feels underpaid, equity conversations get tense fast. Here's how to navigate the equity talk without destroying your startup.

By Luca · 7 min read · Jul 20, 2025
My Cofounder Hired Their Friend—Now What?
Co-founders

My Cofounder Hired Their Friend—Now What?

Your cofounder hired a friend who's a bad fit. Here's how to address the situation, protect your startup, and preserve your cofounder relationship.

By Luca · 7 min read · Jul 18, 2025
Valentine's Day Noise: Roommate Etiquette Guide
Roommates

Valentine's Day Noise: Roommate Etiquette Guide

Navigate Valentine's Day noise with your roommate gracefully. Practical etiquette tips, sample agreements, and real scenarios to keep the peace at home.

By Luca · 8 min read · Jul 16, 2025
Moving Out Scripts: What to Say to Your Roommate
Roommates

Moving Out Scripts: What to Say to Your Roommate

Exact scripts and phrases for telling your roommate you're moving out. Handle the conversation with confidence, preserve the relationship, and avoid drama.

By Luca · 9 min read · Jul 16, 2025
Cofounder Burn Rate Fight: Frugal vs. Growth Mindset
Co-founders

Cofounder Burn Rate Fight: Frugal vs. Growth Mindset

Cofounders clashing over burn rate? Learn how to resolve the frugal vs. growth mindset conflict with practical frameworks and formalized agreements.

By Luca · 7 min read · Jul 13, 2025
My Cofounder Took a Side Project: Betrayal?
Co-founders

My Cofounder Took a Side Project: Betrayal?

Discovered your cofounder has a side project? Learn whether it's a betrayal, a boundary issue, or a conversation you never had—and what to do next.

By Luca · 8 min read · Jul 10, 2025
Recovering Trust After a Roommate Sublet Disaster
Roommates

Recovering Trust After a Roommate Sublet Disaster

Discover how to rebuild trust after a roommate sublet gone wrong. Practical steps for honest conversations, written agreements, and moving forward together.

By Luca · 7 min read · Jul 6, 2025
Rebuilding Roommate Friendship After a Blowout Fight
Roommates

Rebuilding Roommate Friendship After a Blowout Fight

Had a blowout fight with your roommate? Learn practical steps to rebuild trust, repair your friendship, and create agreements that prevent future conflicts.

By Luca · 8 min read · Jul 1, 2025

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