Resources
Practical advice for couples, roommates, co-founders, and co-parents navigating conflict and building stronger agreements.
A Relationship Agreement Template Couples Actually Use
A plain-language relationship agreement template for couples, with real filled-in examples, the exact conversation to have, and what a non-legal agreement can't do.
Write a Chore Split You'll Both Actually Stick To
A written chore and mental-load agreement with named owners, frequency, and a review date. Fill-in template plus how to renegotiate when schedules change.
How to Write a Relationship Agreement (With Examples)
Most advice on recurring fights stops at communication tips. Here's what a written relationship agreement actually looks like, with example clauses and review dates.
How to Split Bills When One Partner Earns More (With the Actual Math)
Equal, proportional, or after-fixed-costs? See the real numbers side by side, plus the short written arrangement that stops the argument coming back.
Who Keeps the Dog After a Breakup?
Not married and splitting up with a dog between you? What the law actually says, when shared custody works, how buyouts get settled, and what to put in writing.
Who Keeps the Dog If We Break Up?
Deciding who keeps the dog if you break up is easier now than later. Two approaches compared, plus the exact terms unmarried couples should write down.
Should I Pay Rent If My Partner Owns the House?
One of you owns the home, the other moved in. Here are the five mistakes couples make with rent, contributions and equity, and how to write the fix down.
A Chore Agreement That Actually Sticks: The Conversation and the Template
A mediator's script for the chore talk, plus a chore division agreement for couples template with owner, frequency, deadline, and what happens on a miss.
Money Arguments in Relationships: A Survival Guide
Stop fighting about money with your partner. This survival guide gives couples practical strategies to resolve financial disagreements before they damage your relationship.
The 4 Horsemen: Why Your Arguments Escalate
Discover which of Gottman's 4 Horsemen shows up in your arguments and learn concrete scripts to stop criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling.
Gottman's Four Horsemen: Why You Really Fight
Discover the four toxic communication patterns behind every recurring argument. Learn to spot Gottman's Four Horsemen and replace them with healthier habits.
Why You and Your Partner Fight About Nothing
Discover why couples fight about nothing and what's really behind those confusing arguments. Learn actionable steps to uncover hidden needs and stop the cycle.
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