Resources
Practical advice for couples, roommates, co-founders, and co-parents navigating conflict and building stronger agreements.
Blended Family Money Rules: A Fair-Split Guide
Practical blended family money rules to split expenses fairly, reduce arguments, and build financial trust. A step-by-step guide for couples.
Love Languages Revisited: Why Yours Changed
Your love language can shift over time—and that's normal. Learn why love languages change, how it causes conflict, and what couples can do to reconnect.
Secret Spending: Signs and How to Recover Trust
Discover the warning signs of secret spending in your relationship and learn practical steps to rebuild trust after financial infidelity.
One Wants Kids, One Doesn't: Now What?
When one partner wants kids and the other doesn't, what happens next? Practical steps for couples navigating this high-stakes disagreement with honesty and care.
In-Laws Giving Unsolicited Parenting Advice
Tired of in-laws giving unsolicited parenting advice? Learn how to set boundaries as a couple, respond with grace, and stop this from becoming a recurring fight.
Stepparent Boundaries: What's Your Role Really?
Struggling with stepparent boundaries? Learn how to define your role, reduce couple conflict, and build a healthier blended family with practical steps.
Valentine's Day Expectations That Ruin Couples
Unspoken Valentine's Day expectations destroy more relationships than forgotten reservations. Learn which expectations hurt couples and how to replace them.
Promotion Means Relocation? How to Decide Together
A job relocation can strain your relationship. Learn how couples can make relocation decisions together without resentment, power imbalances, or recurring fights.
We Never Go Out Anymore: Ending Social Life Fights
Tired of fighting about staying in vs. going out? Learn why couples clash over social life and get practical strategies to stop this recurring argument for good.
Breadwinner Guilt: When She Earns More
Breadwinner guilt when she earns more can quietly erode your relationship. Learn practical strategies couples use to navigate income gaps without resentment.
Stop Keeping Score: The Chore Resentment Trap
Chore resentment silently erodes relationships. Learn why keeping score backfires and discover practical strategies to escape the trap before it damages your bond.
My Friends Hate My Partner: Navigating the Rift
When your friends don't like your partner, it creates painful tension. Learn how to navigate this rift without losing your relationship or your friendships.
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