Resources
Practical advice for couples, roommates, co-founders, and co-parents navigating conflict and building stronger agreements.
Tone of Voice Is Destroying Your Relationship
A 2025 study reveals sour tone is a top fight trigger for couples. Learn why HOW you say things matters more than WHAT you say — and how to fix it.
Why Money Ruins Marriages (And How to Stop It)
Money is the #1 cause of divorce. Learn why couples fight about finances and get actionable strategies to budget as a team and protect your relationship.
Why Couples Fight About the Same Things Over and Over
Discover why couples fight about the same issues repeatedly and learn proven strategies to break destructive argument patterns for good.
Couple Friends Breakup: Navigating the Awkward Split
When couple friends break up, your relationship feels the aftershock. Learn how to navigate the awkward split without losing friendships or harming your bond.
Blended Family Chore Chart That Actually Works
Stop the chore wars in your blended family. Build a fair, flexible chore chart that reduces resentment and actually sticks—practical steps couples can use today.
His Mom Hates Me: Surviving In-Law Rejection
When your partner's mother doesn't like you, it strains everything. Learn practical strategies for surviving in-law rejection and protecting your relationship.
Newlywed Chore Wars: 5 Mistakes to Avoid Now
Newlywed chore wars can erode your marriage fast. Learn the 5 biggest mistakes couples make dividing housework—and practical fixes you can use today.
In-Laws at Every Holiday: Setting Boundaries
Tired of arguing about in-laws every holiday? Learn practical strategies for setting boundaries as a couple so you can enjoy the season without resentment.
Pre-Move-In Checklist: Prevent the Biggest Fights
Use this pre-move-in checklist to prevent the biggest fights couples face when living together. Practical steps to align on money, chores, space, and more.
Should You Merge Finances? A Newlywed Checklist
Not sure whether to merge finances after marriage? Use this newlywed checklist to make the right decision for your relationship and avoid money conflicts.
Joint vs Separate Accounts: What Actually Works
Joint vs separate bank accounts for couples: discover which setup prevents money fights, with real examples and a practical framework to decide together.
Introvert + Extrovert: The Weekend Battle Plan
Introvert-extrovert couples clash every weekend over plans. Learn a practical battle plan to stop recurring arguments and enjoy your days off together.
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